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History of Darek B,

Dear Reverend Bishop, I regret to inform you that Fr.. Stanislaw lured me to each other [...] offered drink, after which I felt limp, he led me to bathroom, stripped naked and bathed me....Next he raped me...-said in a letter to the bishop Regmunt, the injured Dariusz Badowski. In the letter he asked Father. bishop officially take a position, and reporting the rape to the authorities church in Rome.

I regret to inform you that at the turn of the year 19801981, ks. Stanislaw under nativity scenes pretext lured me to him (Major Seminary), where then he served as Administrative Director. Then I came from Świebodzin to Gościkowa bus at the invitation of priest  Stanislaus to see the nativity play performed by clerics. Due to the late time, I did not have a bus to return home, and I was forced to sleep in the seminary, which used to be agreed between a priest and my parents. After the presentation, the priest took me to his apartment, which was located on the harbor entrance to the seminar. The first moments of your stay spent in front of TV. Then Fr. Stanislaw offered one me a drink, after which I felt limp and heavily dazed. Then led me to the bathroom, he stripped naked and bathed me in the tub. After the bath composed me prepared bed, and then he went somewhere. When he returned, he was stripped naked and he lays down beside me. Then, he touched and kissed me in the private parts and then he masturbated me and then himself. After all I was hoping he would leave me alone but I was wrong. After a short break he again began to masturbate me, and then again. When satisfied himself, out of bed, she wiped with a towel and went into the other room. I felt like a trash, battered, defiled, humiliated. I prayed all the time, and actually it was a cry to God, asking him to make this night finally over. In the morning when it was light, I dressed up and wanted to leave, but then came ks. Stanislaw and handed me a gift (scarf). After that I left and headed toward the bus stop. Ks. Stanislaw did not even try to stop me. I have been long waiting for the bus in the cold but I didn’t care about it. I preferred to stand in the cold and freezing than even a minute longer be with a priest in his apartment. I was ashamed to myself  about what had happened. I could not look anyone in the eye, because it seemed to me that all know what had happened. This feeling of defilement can not be expressed in human words, and no one except the people who survived the same thing, is not able to understand what this feeling. Some time later, Father. Stanislaw came twice to my house and urged me to go with him on vacation in his homeland. After I refused him, he did not try more to contact me. I was 13 years old, I attended the seventh grade of primary school No. 3 in Swiebodzin. I deteriorated in science because I could not concentrate on anything. I had constantly before my eyes the terrible scenes of that night with a priest. Even my teacher noticed that something was wrong and called my parents to the school. She said to my parents then that I walk continually in thought and I am very secretive in myself ( I was absent in class). She asked my parents if I do not have a problem with drugs- when I heard it I was very hurt, because behind it was another truth that so much ashamed for me. Dear bishop, respectfully I’m asking you about the exemplary for all dioceses in Poland and in the world. Please verify and clear respond to my case and for all sexual offenses committed against of minors by clergy. I am asking you to respect teaching of Jesus Christ : “Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of Mine, you did for Me. ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did not do it to one of the least of these, you did not do it to me.’ 46 And these will go away into eternal punishment, but the righteous intoeternal life.”(st. Matthew).

I come from a good pious family, I was raised in a spirit of faith. After my Holy Communion I became an altar and served to the masses for many years in the parish. st.Michael the Archangel in Swiebodzin. After this traumatic experience, however, I did not lose faith .On the contrary, faith gave me strength and hope. I helped in the "Oasis" and went on pilgrimage to Rokitno and Czestochowa. After graduating from high school.

I began to study at the Pontifical Faculty of Theology in Gorzow Wielkopolski what certainly confirm this Father. Roman Harmaciński- the Rector Gorzowska Section of the Pontifical Faculty of Theology. After the departure of Polish I involved with the organizing point of Catholic Mission in St. Daunu. p. ks. Bielaszewskiego (diocese of Trier), and so far (already 23 years) is held here once a month masses in Polish. Since 21 years  I live in married, have two children. Son 11 years and daughter 14 months. Both baptized and son after the first Holy Communion was an altar boy, and I am proud. From this event it's been 33 years, the same as our Lord when he died for our sins on the cross, died for the truth he preached. I hope that I will not die for my truth because I have someone to live for. As I look at my children, full of joy and confidence, drawing their hands to Mommy or Daddy , I pray in my heart that did not met them as a tragic shock as their father before many years ago. That's what happened to me, it happened to also many others and further happens because the priests pedophiles are still in parishes and have contact with children. For God's sake-let Your Excellency do something about it, to never happen this to our defenseless children, full of joy, confidence and faith. There is nothing more precious in human life than the Child. “Let the children come to me; do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God. 15 Truly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.”16 And he took them in his arms and blessed them, laying his hands on them.( Mark 10, 13-16). It is time for examination of conscience of the Catholic Church to be able to clean up and preach Truth, live and grow in truth. “I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me” (Jn 14,1-12) . Venerable Reverend Bishop, this is not fight with the Church, it is not the desire to tarnish the name of the Father, it is not the desire to gain material because the law is in my case a long time ago barred. This letter, and what I am doing now is just a testament to the bitter truth and aims to erase or minimize this type of crime in the ranks of the Church Catholic and more. As long as the perpetrators will escape with impunity, they will continue to work and destroy the child what is most precious inside them : Love, Faith and Virtue. Not victims of these crimes have to be afraid to talk about it but those have to be afraid- who raped them. Because victims are stigmatized and hurt deeply. The wound does not heal ever, with the wound you have to learn to live-thank God I made it. However, not everyone is able to handle with this. It often ends in tragedy when the pain becomes not to handle and such a man attempt on his life and ends life because of this terrible disease called spiritual depression. Please understand me, my goal is the first place to protect innocent children, still exposed to sexual abuse, they not have to go through the same hell like me and providing assistance to victims, which were the same and do not have the courage orther strength to talk about it and deal with it. I just got back from church, I was there with my children to Mass and  I heard these words: " We born to give witness to the truth.". It felt as someone had said to me on my 33 years of asked the question "why me, why?" Now, I'm sure, and I can answer the priest why I'm doing this."I was born and I was sexually abused by a priest, would now give testimony truth, all those who live in truth ... "All those who do not live in the truth, do not believe in my testimony.